Category: Love

Finding Whanau

by Linda Carroll, MS, LMFT, BCC People are exhausted with and by COVID-19, and anticipation of what’s to come medically, …

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Are You Giving (or Getting) Mixed Signals?

Mixed emotions can be confusing–and they’re at the core of so much of what we feel.

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Relationship Skills Can Help You Be A Better Parent

Many basic relationship skills can be used in your parenting.

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How To Fail-Proof Your Marriage

Become a relational Jedi by putting these five guiding principles into practice.

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Need a Cure for Adulthood? Play!

Bring more vitality to your relationship by finding ways to play.

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How to Be Fiercely Peaceful

Peace means being curious about your own “inner wars” and moving forward with values and ideals that spring from a sense of human interrelatedness.

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Beware of Your Comfort Zone in Love

It’s enlivening to explore and take risks (within reason) in committed relationships–to color outside the lines of our comfort zones.

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Want a Healthy Life? Do This.

As we enter adulthood, and intimate relationships, the need to develop greater feeling literacy grows.

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Why Disconnection is Important

Romantic relationships cycle through three common phases: connection, disconnection, and repair. Each of these phases requires our skillful attention, though it’s easy to idealize the connection phase.

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Are You Mothering Your Partner?

Habitually focusing on a partner’s need to do the “right” thing rather than on your own need to control them may be fueling a mothering or fathering dynamic in your relationship.

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