Erotic vitality means feeling fully alive. You do this first and foremost for yourself. Feeling vibrant and empowered to live and speak your truth in different domains helps counterbalance the forces in the world around you that may undermine your sense of agency. Erotic vitality emerges when you can relax, speak up, set boundaries, pursue joy and pleasure, cultivate fulfilling relationships, experience agency, and have energy.
Desire isn’t just a means to an end–it’s an end in itself.
If you want to sexually desire your partner, you can grow your sexual feelings for them and create positive shifts in your erotic connection to them over time.
If you’re frequently “skin-hungry,” it could be a sign that an essential physical and emotional nutrient is missing from your relationship.
The SCAM Reinforces Passivity The Sexual Chemistry Attraction Myth–the SCAM–encourages us to look outside of ourselves for situations and people who will lead …
We grow up learning that discipline is part of how we achieve excellence. Yet we rarely consider being disciplined about …
It’s ten o’clock at night. You’re happily married to a wonderful man you love. You brush your teeth, put on …
