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Do This to Heal

Motion gives us Access to Emotion When it comes to the types of therapy insurance companies will reimburse, movement is …

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Do You Believe in ‘The One?’

Releasing ourselves from the SCAM (the Sexual Chemistry Attraction Myth) means we open to the intricate, mysterious world that’s available to us outside of our narrow and preconceived notions of attraction to one person or to one romantic “type.”

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Owning Your Dark Side

Owning your darkness has tremendous benefits, including dissolving what separates you from others and increasing the sense of well-being you experience simply being you.

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What’s Your Number One Rule for Life?

A good deal of mental health depends on a person learning how to alter their perceptions of reality–particularly those aspects that are intransigent or seemingly entrenched.

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Is Your Partner Stressed? These 5 Reactions Make it Worse

Different Sensitivity Levels to Stress In a relationship, people often have different sensitivity levels to stress, and find different situations …

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The Emotional Calculus of Loving

If Your Partner Isn’t Ready It only takes one person to change a marriage for the better. If your partner …

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A Modern Chastity Belt

The SCAM Reinforces Passivity The Sexual Chemistry Attraction Myth–the SCAM–encourages us to look outside of ourselves for situations and people who will lead …

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The Price You Pay For Believing in Sexual Chemistry

There’s a Link Between Culture and Arousal What happens when you convince women to put their erotic awakening on hold? …

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When I First Met the Parent Police

Healing ourselves often means taking on the “parent police” when we no longer prioritize the official story of our childhoods over our own wholeness.

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4 Steps to Surviving a Dark Night of the Soul

Here’s a 4-step strategy to help you get through a darknots (dark night of the soul).

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The Sexual Chemistry Attraction Myth (SCAM)

Over a decade ago, when I first started working as a couples’ therapist, I was tormented by my own low …

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From Power Struggles to Personal Power

Power is an implicit currency in relationships. Like actual currency, it comes in many forms. It can be almost anything we value: beauty, money, status, age, youth, sex appeal, fame, notoriety, health, emotional intelligence. Its value changes depending on the context.

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